I Cheated on My Boyfriend and Feel a Lot Better

You are an awful human being, poor guy

You, are the perfect definition of whore. Anyone who says anything else is wrong. Enjoy that! Hopefully your boyfriend has been cheating on you too!

In defense of the writer, when a relationship is not fulfilling, why do you have to stick it out? Because that’s what you’re “supposed” to do? Why insist on monogamy anyway?
I’m in an open relationship and happy with it. My boyfriend and I are both very sexual people, high risk of cheating, we had an adult and calm talk about it, set up some ground rules, and we’re happy. Maybe one day we’ll be exclusive, maybe not. It helps that we’re not the jealous type and we’re both quite self confident.
The only thing I disagree with is the not telling part. I see where you’re coming from, but at least for me honesty remains the best policy.

I totally get everything you said. Please ignore the disgusting insults. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and tips. Maybe you could discuss having an open relationship. I did with my bf and although he didn’t feel comfortable, the talk helped our relationship I think… I feel I could be honest. I was afraid he’d get really mad bc he is kind of anal but we discussed it and he thought about it.

Wooooow. This is why people disgust me. If you start having feelings about other people, then tell your partner that you want a break. Don’t cheat on them! That’s incredibly disrespectful to the relationship and your partner. It makes you seem like a horrible person. Just sit the guy down and say “Hey, I think we need some time apart, I’m just really confused right now and I need to think things through” but do not, by any means, go behind the back of the man who loves you, to spread your legs to another man who is just using you for sex. That’s disgusting and you brought shame upon the term of monogamy. I bet you would’ve felt a hundred times better about yourself if you had wandered out w/ other guys while you and your boyfriend were on a break, instead of cheating on him.

He deserves to find out and leave you for someone who will truly love him and respect him. Because you don’t truly love someone and then cheat on him. That’s not how it works. He’s clearly not you’re soul mate, because if he was, you would NEVER do anything on purpose to harm or hurt him. But you did, and worse – you lied about it and choose to keep it a secret. How absolutely disgusting. I hope you get herpes from all that promiscuous sex.

I’ve also been with my bf 5 yrs and i love him a lot but i found out that he cheated on me, so as a revenge to make me feel better I done the same. he never found out and our relationship improved because i dont feel i hate him anymore for cheating and besides i dont need to feel more paranoid and if i do i just need to cheat again to make me feel better, i agree with this lady 100% welcome to the real XXI century

Don’t listen to anyone calling you a whore. I am so glad I found this read. It makes me feel less bad about what I did. I had a boyfriend for 1 year 8 months but he was very jealous so I had sex with this guy I knew and then I broke up with my boyfriend then. Me and this guy kept having sex, we even became gf and bf but it was nothing serious.

Then I met this guy, he was handsome, older than me and such a charmer. He would always have time for me. We had sex too but it wasn’t exclusive. Then we got together and I stopped having sex with the other guy. After a while I found out that he was flirting with girls and sending each other pictures and talking to them. For all I know, he could have been cheating on me. So I started to have sex with the guy again and also with this other guy that was trying to be more than friends with me. It made me feel better because I knew he deserved it. In my mind, if I wouldn’t have found out he would have never told me.

So after a while I stopped having sex with other guys because I felt like he stopped doing what he was doing. Then I had this opportunity and I had sex with another guy. I guess deep down I am still mad because I was faithful to him and he wasn’t to me. I want to tell him but I can’t because he never told me. He was also talking with girls around my birthday which now brings back all those awful hurtful memories in my mind every time my birthday comes around.

@ Caroline
You admire her honesty? Did you miss the part where she wasn’t honest with her boyfriend?

It’s easy to admit something anonymously on the internet to complete strangers. It’s much harder, and takes much more character, to come clean with something in person to the ones you love. Apparently the writer does not have enough strength to do that.

Honestly, I think you’re wrong. every person deserves to know the truth. If you cheated on your spouse, and let’ s say like in your case, you got back together , you MUST and SHOULD still tell him what you have done, and tel lhim how sorry you are and that you really want this relationship to work out and ask for a chance. Since you already broke the law of “loyalty”, by not telling him what you have done, you’re already breaking another law of being honest with oen another .

If you haven’t chweated but have fantasies, you should let your partner know. And if you do really love him, find a way to work around it. If you reall love him, you’ll be abel to overcome those fantasies with other ma, and the only person you’d fantasize over is your own partner.Also, it’s better to tell your partner how you feel, it’s better to break up before you make any bad decisions. don’t cheat. if you’re gonna have sex with another man, at least tell your boy the truth and break up first. You ge twhere i’m coming from.
so to the writer, tell him, for his sake

Maybe monagamy in the traditional sense is not actually for you. Why don’t you find someone to have an open relationship with – then if you stay faithful to the rules of extra marital sex as agreed upon by both of you, then you’re not cheating. Actually you may find that you will have a deeper bond with your primary – whatever level of monagamish you choose, at least it’s an honest way to live – sneaking regularly around your boyfriend’s back is just dishonest and cowardly.

Most women who comment on here are saying it’s okay. I bet if it was a guy who wrote this story then all you women would say “he’s scum,horrible person,asshole etc” but if a woman does it ” it’s fine”
If you have a bf/gf the answer is you do not cheat. If you plan on cheating, you break up with the person before, and yes the bf/gf has more of a right to know that you cheated on him , then you even cheating at all. You ARE a slut don’t listen to any of the comments saying otherwise…

Thank you for this. I’m in this exact same situation and have come to the exact same realization very recently. You are not alone and you have helped me feel less alone. Ignore the people who are terrible for you calling terrible. Every time, they point a finger- three more point back at them. I think to get out of an affair like this is a blessing. It’s a true wake-up call to change your ways and really really really give your loved one the appreciation they deserve. If you hadn’t experienced this, you would have ended up marrying and divorcing feeling like you were taken for granted and restricted. Now, you can give this man the love he deserves. Our guilt is ours alone and we can punish ourselves for the rest of our lives more than our significant others can. It’s a burden to bear but one we do for the people we love. I firmly believe you shouldn’t tell your significant other. There is a very good chance that they already know deep down but will never say it out loud and are already hurt by the thought of it. Don’t hurt them more by affirming it. THANK YOU. You’ve helped one person and that means more than any more of these judgmental nay-sayers who will never understand what it feels like to have a second chance at real love.

I agree with Manny. Though i won’t judge the author, i think she’s has been unfair to her boyfriend who for all you know loves and cares about her so much. You can tell that this guy really loved the author because of the way he cried and begged the author to give their relationship another shot. Even after all the begging and crying she still went on with her romantic fantasies. woow..WOMEN.
I really think that the guy deserves to know the truth of everything that happened. Let him decide if he still loves you enough to let go and be with you. I know you’re probably gonna say, “why should she do that? That can end the relationship cos the guy will get so hurt?” If it was the other way round, the ladies would have said that at least the guy should have been HONEST and told the truth. So please tell the truth and deal with the aftermath, instead of covering up and feeling guilty about it as and when the memories crop up in your mind.
The million dollar questions are:
1. She probably thinks he’s not gonna find out. But what if by some means he got to know about it from a third person, who had hard evidence of what really went on?
2.The author claims she just wanted to get back at her boyfriend. Suppose they both get to an age where the lady is no longer physically attractive to sleep around (ladies have an expiry date), and the guy starts sleeping around with younger ladies just to feel like a young man dating a beautiful woman again, how will the lady feel about it?
My final advice is this: Men, learn to make your woman feel like a woman always and work at always keeping that feeling of infatuation alive no matter what. Learn to understand the overall makeup of women and treat them as such.
Ladies, do not take your men who are serious about you for granted. The purpose of a relationship is to RELATE. learn about how the man is different from you and his temperaments and do your possible best to communicate with him with love and it shall be well. SHALOM EVERYBODY!!!

here’s a better advice for all women. pick a man who’s faithful. and men should pick a woman who’s faithful. do your work people, there are people out there thinking this way, it’s just that the most promoted people and tv celebrities are promiscuous and they tend to lead those insecure wannabees to prostitute themselves. cheaters and sex-lusting people should get with each other and stay together and they can only stay together if other people do their best to distance from engaging in sex relationships with them.
i definitely don’t want to engage in relationship where i can end up being cheated and i’m searching for an honest man.
i know there are lots of men out there seeking for honest women as well. we just need to learn how to differ each other better and that way we’ll isolate cheaters to date and marry cheaters. to do this, we need to engage only with intent to have serious relationships without any sex involved until relationship becomes strong. that doesn’t have any relation to marriage, marriage is just a piece of paper, love and caring is what counts and what makes a relationship. i’m unrepairable romantic xD
and yes, the author of this article is a slut! people like you are ruining western civilization and turn it into place where men and women mistrust each other by default! you’re either under influence of the ill culture of fast hookups and first, second, third-date-sex rules establisted by tv agenda. be happy that you cheated your boyfriend, lottery was on your side because one day you’ll get it other way around when he gets to resolve his own issues and then you better pray that he doesn’t get honest with you either, so you can both live in your slutty lies.

the worst part about this is that you didn’t tell the truth. it’s not fair to your bf. I barely have words to express how sad this makes me.
the truth will set you free.
you need to ask for forgiveness
and be ready to take whatever comes from the revealing of your actions.

Im sorry you had to cheat on your boyfriend to realize. This is like a drug addict who has to lose everything he has before he realizes they cant live life while using drugs. You should be ashamed of yourself. The only person you love is yourself. You wont tell him because you know he wont forgive you. So many stupid people on earth, i have lost faith in humanity. You probably do not even have a good education, ba of arts more than likely. Ive never met such a disgusting human being. I hope you die in a car crash.

I’m not going to pass any judgement on you as a person.

Currently on the receiving end of someone doing exactly what you did, there’s not really any way to describe the pain and deep trauma you inflict on someone. To be kicked to the curb so callously after years of trust, friendship, and love is devastating beyond explanation. The “Oh, I’ve actually been over this for awhile now and this is how I’m going to tell you that you’ve already been replaced” is harder to deal with than suicide.

To anyone out there whose kind of over their relationship and might want to move on, please, for the love of god, talk to your partner about how you’re feeling. If you have communication issues, it might be really hard to open that part of your life, but you have to. There’s no way you can ever imagine what it feels like to be betrayed and left to die like that.

I have to start going to therapy over something that could have been an hour of honest talking with someone you trust.

If you really love them, you can’t do to them what happened to me. Don’t be a shitty person, because you will come to hate yourself for how badly you hurt someone you love.

I can only hope the one I love is going through a similar cathartic experience that the author did.

I’m assuming those defending the author have never been cheated on, or cheated in retaliation for their parnter’s infidelity. I went through a similar situation where my girlfriend (ex now) felt our relationship was getting stale. She ended up cheating on me but I never told her I knew and I assume that she still thinks I don’t. It’s actually quite easy to know when someone is cheating by their inevitable change, emotionally or physically. Also, my friend saw them at a restaurant together (even big cities aren’t as big as we think they are). I feel bad for your boyfriend. He obviously loves you and you seem very callous to his feelings. I hope people considering cheating realize that they will likely get caught, and the extent of emotional damage that their actions cause. Not only did this send me into very deep depression for months, but it has also ruined other relationships for me as I have a difficult time trusting women now. This article sadly reinforces the increasing stereotype that most women are cheating sluts.

While this article she does state the personal negative effect from cheating. Her lack of compassion for boyfriend is a disturbing. Regardless of what the writer says, cheating is always bad, there’s no good that can come from it. I was this girl for over 10 years and it was a great relationship in my eyes. We had our ups and downs, but not once did I cheat on her. I gave her love, I was attentive to her needs, and was there for her. Just recently I found out she’s been cheating on me. This completely destroyed me. I went through every emotional stage during this whole ordeal. I started picking myself apart and soon you start think it was your fault, constantly asking yourself what did wrong for her to look elsewhere. You start to lose sleep, work starts to drag, and your world literally start to fall apart. My ex can give me every excuse in the world and I’ll never agree that what she did was justified. She basically ripped apart my whole world for her own selfish needs. So if anyone here using this article to justify what they did, you guys are a complete idiot. Instead of feeling better about what you did how about you realize that you made a mistake and own up to it. After all what separate us from animal is our ability to realize our mistake and own up to it. Not to be ok with it or feel better about it. You can’t improve yourself, if you can’t see the errors in your ways. So before you guys try and justify a reason to cheat, think about the emotional pain you’ll inflict on the other person that stood by you through all the hard times. If the other person you’re with is a****le, just leave him/her, it’s that simple. Why lower yourselves and make yourself look like a complete whore just to prove a point. Take the mature road and just end the relationship.

Selfishness – this whole article can be summed up with that one word.

Its not inevitable to cheat – its more accurate to say its inevitable to have the urge / desire to cheat.

Even the act itself is fine in my book, I had a gf in the past who cheated on me more than once. It was a problem obviously. Ultimately it came down to the fact she had somewhat low self esteem and would become overwhelmed in these moments where she was being hit on etc (alcohol was usually involved). I should add this was over the course of 8 years, not like 3 months lol..

Anyway the point is, I was mad at her – but was very grateful that
A) She told me.
B) She went into detail about what happened, why, how it made her feel – etc.
C) I could tell she regretted it.

To say something like “I never told my boyfriend anything about those few months. I don’t see why he has to know any of these details. It would only hurt him more.”

This is so fundamentally repulsive and selfish – it makes me sick, and makes me think you don’t really care this person, you only care about how he makes YOU feel.

Its the equivalent of saying, I suffocated my friends baby because it eats too much of my food – but I see why she needs to know these details. Babies die all the time from cot death. It would only hurt her anyway. Then carry on – pretending to be her best friend and caring for her SO MUCH that you don’t want to hurt her feelings by telling her the truth.

This is the epitome of selfishness.

I think u should tell ur boyfriend about your affairs. U are a coward for not telling him. He has the right to know. U ought to be ashamed of yourself for going on about your life with him as if nothing had happened. Fess up! Tell him! If/when u do tell him, I hope he leaves u for a real woman who will love him. U say u love him, but that’s not love. U don’t know what love is. That is all :p

Okay, this is me pissing off, not you talking about your unfaithful ways, its good to let it all out, but how you imply cheating isn’t bad and you condone it. So what if it seems “natural” to go through these things, feelings of infatuation and illusions of a possible infidelity happen but when it all escapes to the real world shit will happen and you’ll only just feel used in the end.
You may not have regretted it in the end, but you sure as hell will when the guy that was totally faithful ended up leaving you for being so indifferent about your so called flings.
I have never cheated or have been cheated on but I’ve seen family and friends go through it, and it will seriously scar a person if the one you’ve trusted betrayed you to such an extent that you will never trust your significant other again. I know that you don’t want your boyfriend to find out but one of your old boy toys may come back to haunt you and end up ruining your relationship, it would be best for YOU to tell him before anything happens because that will forever haunt you. Be honest in the long run because honesty, trust, and communication is what keeps a relationship together.
I honestly think you were (and still are not) not mature at that point in time, let go of your ego and be the bigger person here so everyone on this post will stop calling you a whore and slut–I myself am holding back from calling you so many things that would even make a sailor blush. Your boyfriend, nor anyone for that matter, does not need to go through this shit just ‘cuz you found it exciting and adventurous to sleep around like the harlot everyone else perceives you to be. Good night, madam. Hope you get over yourself.

I don’t know where these people get off in saying these horrible things to you. What ever happened to if you dont have anythibg nice to say dont say it all. Your a hell of a woman and your honesty in your experience is moving. You brought me to tears because your entirely right. I did the same thing but I told him after feeling so empty and discusted with myself. The only thing that did was get rid of some of my pain and give it right to the man I love. It’s great knowing people feel the same as me and are not afraid of themselves. I know your doing great and I wish you the best of luck

I find it very sad that you say you love your boyfriend and you have disrespect him in the worse way you can, even your worse enemy does not deserve the treatment you have given to the man you claim to love… how will you live every day thinking that the man that is living with you is just with you because he does not know who you really are?? Do you realize that you have made a lie from your relationship with him? Everything is a lie because is based on a lie, he is with you because he really doesn’t know you… I don’t think you beguine to understand up to what point you have humillated the man you claim to love and who’s only fault was to love you…. You are very little as person and have a broken soul. I don’t wish you any bad… the worse punishment is to have to live with yourself as I am sure you well know that you don’t deserve him and it will bother you your whole life.

I…. I’m just stunned. When did it suddenly become ok to cheat on people? Seriously, I’m not judging anyone else here, but I find it funny that when the commenters try to justify the arguments its like “These guys are stuck on porn” or “If you can’t say anything nice blah blah blah”. Not really. I’m in a committed relationship, with a woman I love. If i found out that she had been cheating on me, I’d be devastated, and probably become a nervous wreck. But, I’d rather she came out and told me straight away, because it would mean she respected me at least enough to know that I deserved to know. It’s clear that you don’t respect your men ladies, and if you don’t respect someone, you definitely can’t love them, so don’t spout bullshit like “it’ll just hurt him to know”. You don’t care about these men, and frankly, you don’t deserve them.

And the majority of you women…still have the nerve to wonder why the

majority of men, pump-you and dump-you, and treat you like a piece of meat.

Evidently, this article is what the majority of you women have to offer. LOL.

Riddle solved.

@ Stephanie…. so you boyfriend does not put you first… obviously you thinking about cheating is not selfish at all …. well what do I need to say… you say it hurts?? You have not cheated yet but you are already taking the justifications…. I am so sorry for your bf… he doesn’t know the kind of woman he has….

admire her honesty? Where’s the honesty in telling her boyfriend went on behind his back?

The author of this article REEKS of immaturity. Instead of communicating like an adult with her significant other she runs off with TWO other guys. She spouts on and on about loving this person – while having intimate relationships with other people. Odds are her boyfriend is going to find out eventually, and when he does the foundation of trust in the relationship is going to be utterly destroyed.

The author goes on to flaunt the ‘ease’ of cheating, it’s not easy it’s abusing the trust built between two people. The fact that she held his hanging out with his friends over his head is so painfully childish, it’s as if she was grasping at reasons not to be with this guy.. But when she realized the grass wasn’t as green went back to him.

From one woman to another, shame on you for mistreating someone who loved you so dearly. You owe it to him to tell him what went on, try to act like an adult for once in your life. Shame on you as well, for promoting this kind of behavior in others! People like you are what is wrong with the world today.

Dear Skittles,

I was engaged to a woman who I loved with all my being. Within two days of our engagement she started sleeping with her boss at work while away on a work trip. I was finishing graduate school and my graduation present was to hear from hear that she had slept with another man, that I deserved it because we had had a fight, that “it was too good to pass up”. I remember falling to the ground and vomiting while she laughed.

More than hurt, I was struck with a deep confusion as to how someone could choose to do this to someone they said they wanted to spend the rest of their life with. We had children’s names, and a wedding site. The idea that some man could swoop in and “be better than me” haunts and confuses me every day.

I am left with a lingering sense of worthlessness and self doubt. I have not been able to date, and sometimes shake uncontrollably when the flashbacks of her laughing come to mind. I have lost my sense of self, not only because this thing has happened, but because, I am not sure she feels very bad. I don’t understand how that can be. Confusion, sadness, and rage are my every other thought.

What hurts also is the sense that this is acceptable behavior, that it is encouraged by other women, and that somehow they are immune from the kind of self critique which kept me from cheating.

I understand that people are people and that they will want to cheat.I have wanted to cheat. I simply have a very hard time understanding how “want” translates into “right”, and by that right, women become capable of shameless cruelty which does not have a ripple in their emotional pond.

Reading your blog lets me know that there are women who do not meet my nightmarish archetype. Whatever man you love, does not know how lucky he is. I can only hope to meet a woman like yourself going foreword.

Thank you for your true bravery based in a spirit of just an loving attention to the other as opposed to bravery based on defining oneself by the a post- modernist nihilism based in unproven evolutionary theory. Human beings have free will, male and female. Thank you for being a good woman. Your simple words mean more than you can ever imagine to a broken soul searching for meaning.

I may never find the courage to love again but simply knowing you exist and hold accountable you kinswoman gives me the first hope I have felt in years. God bless you and may you have a happy loving life.

Affectionately and respectfully,

Inquisitive

I don’t think you should stick to a relationship but if you are not happy with a person a break up is the best option, then you can do what you have in mind, when you really love a person you don’t cheat on him or her and if you do then you will end up confessing it to them as simple as that, and if you keep it as a secret then you don’t love that person.

What goes around, comes around.

Been with my gf/fiancee for four years now. Haven’t cheated, never been tempted. It’s a lot easier than you think.

Like the sentence whore is someone jupming from one bed to another. Awakening! Humans are self-interested animals. We each have our own rights and duties to perform. It’s not fair to just have only one of those. Hope anyone fairly treats your partner who too treats you farily. Whos initiates fairness first? Ladies or Gentlemen?

Cheating really isn’t something that anyone should do at all. There are a lot of opportunities to cheat, no matter what situation anyone is in, but it’s also very easy NOT to do that. Every relationship is different depending on the circumstance but cheating is completely disrespectful and should never be encouraged.

Oh my god u guys are dumb & naive ! I’m sorry but this isn’t the 1800′s people! No one wants to have sex with the same person for years . This is the reason why people get divorced ! It’s not like she came in the relationship screwing guys left to right – that would make her a whore. I feel like cheating is ok after u guys have been together for years like her. It helps u realize how much u care about someone. I remember when the love of my life kept cheating on me & it broke my heart until I started cheating back. Then he had finally decided to settle down but I was into guy number 2. But then one day I was laying next to guy number 2 & I realized that yeah this guy may be a good temporary fix but at the end of the day he’ll never replace my boyfriend . I don’t know about u guys but me cheating led to me falling back in love with my boyfriend. So yeah I don’t think what I did was right but at the same time life is fucked up u gotta deal with it! All u ppl attacking her calling her a whore probably were either cheated on before or not in a long ass relationship (like years upon years)& if u were in a long ass relationship without cheating ur probably bored with ur significant other whether u wanna admit it or not . Don’t judge us until u try it!

dont listen to what people on here is telling you, i’ve been in your situation before, but it was she that cheated on me. as much as i want to sit here and call her a whore. the reality is this. sex is the biggest part of life believe it or not. it determines if you have a good day or not. what you did to your man just proves that men need to step up and be on their shit. if you was getting it like you and any other female imagine it then there would be no room for you to cheat you wouldn’t want to. one thing i do agree with others about is not telling him you cheated on him. i searched up this topic because i wanted to know if cheating sex was better than regular sex and you answered me. thank you. i was thinking that he was just better than me in bed she explained it to me just as you did. to summon it up what both you and her said is that you felt a certain way and in that way leads towards you doing what you fantasize about and fantasy is supposed to be exciting right so why would that not be mind blowing. if its not then why even bother having sex again with that person but onward to the finish line. you should tell him. when i forced her to tell me what went down if he was better and was he bigger you know you will get the third degree but if he loves you as much as you say he does then trust me your best bet is to tell him so he can work out his short commings and be a better lover for you or he will do what i did and find ways to put it in her mind that i was the best she ever had. in other words i showed her than what she was getting from me wasn’t all i had. and im assuming that thats the case with your boyfriend. at the same time you are to be at fault for than. we will never know just how freaky or dirty our lover is until we really try to tell them what we desire and sometimes it takes someone else to make us open our eyes to see that you need more. Lastly you say that you cheated and got away with it but one thing i have noticed is that a lie that you tell will always haunt you and you will always have to remember to cover up what lies you done told and sooner or later you will slip up. and later on in life when he do find out he will leave you because you didn’t have the balls to tell him that you cheated. that implies that thats something you are not regretful about something you might do later in life. tell him. our sex has went from her havn’t an orgasm one out of 3 sex session to her squirting orgasm juices everytime we had sex and i can safely say no doubt in my mind i have corrected my mistakes now she wants it more than even me. tell him he deserve to know you both deserve a honest relationship.

Interesting story makes me wonder if it is really true. She is not a whore because whores get paid she had sex with 2 guys for free. She cheated and acted slutty but men do it all the time. Almost everyone cheats at some point in their life including women. Men are just as slutty as women if not more.

Slut. If you wanted out, should have told your bf and break up. But instead you chose to keep him as safety net in case affair won’t work out. I wonder, how he’d feel, if he found out he was treated like an object. But you won’t tell him, because you’re a slut and continue to leech attention and validation off him.

Justification “it happens all the time” is plainly retarded. You know, what else happens all the time? Stuff like murders, rapes, child molestation in particular, financial fraud. Are you gonna justify that too by saying “it happens all the time”?

Both men and women cheat, that’s true, but AT LEAST we -men- acknowledge we did something wrong and keep our fucking mouths shut, we don’t go around and merrily post an article about how right we were and how liberated or whatever we felt after doing it, or encourage others to do it and see “what works for them”.

It’s disgusting to see all the other women defending the author because they did the same thing.
You can’t even face the fact that what you did is WRONG so you need a support group for lying to yourselves. Like if you were a bunch of immature spoiled 5 year olds, for fucks sake.

Seriously, you people are truly pathetic.

You should tell your boyfriend. That is just not cool to have that kind of secret from the person that you “love”. You have to accept the consequences of your actions if there are any.

Honey, you were ovulating. That’s why this was a one week thing. It’s actually quite common for women to find a new man attractive during ovulation and even have numerous partners.

I learned how my body worked the hard way, when I was unsure who the father might be after a week of extra activity. Good advice is to not drink or hang out with any men other than your partner the week you ovulate. It’s not that you lose control of yourself rather you just increase the odds you will make a mistake.

Most women cheat in a way or another (if not sex then random kisses or emotional affairs); they are simply very good at keeping it a secret.

I think it’s because it has been done to us for -centuries! – and somehow we feel they(men) deserve it, they would do the same if given the chance. Obviously, it’s easier for women to find interested males but that doesn’t mean our partners wouldn’t take the opportunity.

So somehow, I think we know it and that’s why don’t feel remorse and thus we are not showing any signs of our infidelity…

And please, All of you “Women”…… Stop It. Don’t generalize All Men. And I’m A Female. Just because A lot Of People Do It, Doesn’t make It right. Is It alright To Murder Someone? NO. However plenty Do Murder……

Her Boyfriend, I’m certain didn’t deserve It. She’s not being honest, If she were she”d tell Him. She’s a A complete loose ball. Total trash, And extremely selfish.

Samantha, Murder Has been around since The beginning Of time. And plenty do Murder, However, Does this make It acceptable? NO. Cheating Is wrong, And selfish.