How to Kiss a Friend Accidentally and Get Away with It

how to kiss a friend

Ever been tempted to kiss a friend? While it’s alright to get attracted to a friend, it’s not always the safest bet to make a move. Find out how to kiss a friend and get away with it!

Kissing a friend is a tempting proposition. But unless it’s a mutual desire, it’s best to stay away from such complications. But if you really do want to get frisky with a pal, here’s your guide on how to kiss a friend, the easy way.

It’s sneaky, but hey, if sexual desire matters more than friendship to you, why not give this a go?

How to kiss a friend

Have you ever tried to kiss a friend? In most cases, it just doesn’t work out.

Your friend may be shocked, surprised, or may want to stay away from you.

But if you really do like a friend and want to take it further down the path of love, then this piece on kissing a friend may not be appropriate for you. [Read: Falling in love with a friend]

But on the other hand, if you just want know how to kiss a friend, and then worry about your mixed feelings later, this may be the easiest way forward.

There are a few times when you can kiss a friend and get away with it, and a few other times when it’s just completely inappropriate to kiss a friend.

Firstly we’ll get to the five ways by which you could kiss a friend out of the blue, with no preamble or even a hint that you’re attracted to your friend.

#1 Kissing a friend when you’re drunk

This is pretty much the safest way to kiss a friend and get away with it. And let’s face it, more than half the first kisses between friends use this move. When you’re out with this friend you like or at a party, have a few drinks and wait for the booze to kick in. And once you’re feeling the buzz, use that as the perfect accidental excuse. Try and get the coziest spot next to your friend, preferably an isolated spot.

Start a conversation with your friend and eventually start whispering to your friend. Of course, you’re *drunk*, aren’t you? Whispering into each other’s ears is completely acceptable when you’re high!

And at some point of the conversation in between all the close facial contact, go right up and kiss your friend. The kiss may last a while longer if you’ve built a lot of sexual chemistry through all the body contact, but even if your friend’s not drunk, you’d still be able to sneak in a quick kiss. And your friend can’t really get upset or do anything about it, after all, you’re drunk out of your mind! [Read: How to flirt by touching]

#2 Playing truth or dare

Kissing a friend doesn’t come easier than this. So if you’re ever trying to figure how to kiss a friend, focus on arranging a drinking game like spin the bottle or truth or dare. [Read: How to play sexual truth or dare]

Sometimes, you may get a kiss or a lot more than that. But at other times, you may not always end up lucky and another friend may end up kissing the friend you want to kiss. But not to worry, if you didn’t get a chance to kiss your friend during the game, just get drunk and go back to step #1!

#3 Kiss your friend when they’re consoling you

This is a sneaky move, and it’s another common ploy in getting to kiss a friend. Many people use this, and quite frankly, it works very well.

Have you just lost something of value and need some consoling? Everyone needs a friend they’re down and need consoling. So call the friend you like and tell them how *depressed* you are and how much you’d appreciate it if they could come over to your place to cheer you up.

When your friend comes by to your place, snuggle up and hug your friend. Just stay in that position as you mumble your sorry ass story and explain how depressed you are. At some point, you’d know that your friend’s pretty comfortable with the hug too. Now you can linger your hands on their back or go straight for the kiss. The kiss may last a while, or a few seconds. But if it does last, the kiss could lead both of you into bed and even go a lot further. [Read: How to have sex with a friend]

On the other hand, if your friend does take offense, you could apologize profusely and tell your friend you didn’t know what came over you. Yeah right, you effing perv!

#4 Accidentally kiss your friend

Now if you want to know the dirt on how to kiss a friend while trying this, you won’t be able to get a big, wet kiss using this move. But on the upside, your friend can never really point their finger at you, or even remotely accuse you.

So you’ve been clubbing recently? You know how hard you have to shout to be heard over the blaring speakers, don’t you? Almost always, two people who want to have a conversation have to stick their faces together to be heard. If you create an opportunity to create a quick successive series of questions and answers, you can move your face across when your friend’s yelling into your ear, and hey, guess what you just did, you kissed your friend! [Read: Embarrassing first kiss story]

How to kiss a friend accidently conversation tip:

You: Hey, I’m going to get a drink, you want one too?!

Friend: Yeah!

You: What?!

Friend: Yeah, I’ll have one too!

You: What do you want to have?!

Friend: A beer!

You: What?!

Friend: A beeer!!

You: Why don’t you have a Hawaiian Volcano?

Friend: A Hawaiian wha….

You: A hawaiian vol… ummh!

Oops!! *Grin*

Now this works well even in a movie theater, and it’s sneaky, isn’t it? And an improvisation of this kiss is when you both are hugging and kissing each other goodbye. Turn your cheek in ever so slightly when your friend’s about to kiss you goodbye, and viola!

#5 How to kiss a friend via text flirting

Now this is a safe way to kiss your friend. It involves a lot of late night texts which eventually lead to sizzling sexual chemistry between both of you. It’s almost always foolproof as long as you take your time and play it cool. Get this easy step right, and you’re definitely going to do a lot more than kiss your friend. Get this wrong, and it’s still safe for you! [Read: How to text flirt and seduce a friend]

Times when you just shouldn’t kiss a friend

Now that you know the best tips on how to kiss a friend sneakily and avoid any complications, perhaps it’s time to know the times when you should never really kiss a friend.

#1 When they’re being touchy feely

Look, friends can be touchy feely or every flirty at times. But that’s just not enough of a reason to kiss a friend. Unless the vibes are just right, don’t kiss your friend just because they’re cuddling up or holding your hands. It’s risky and can cost you your friendship and the intimacy. [Read: Are you more than friends?]

#2 When your friend’s asleep

This is an absolute no-no. As tempting as a sleeping friend can look, you just can’t kiss a friend when they’re asleep even if you’re drunk. There’s every chance that your friend may wake up and think you’re an absolute pervert! And your other friends will have the same opinion too.

#3 When your friend’s hung over

This kind of a situation may work in a porno flick and it’s a great fantasy too, but it’s just not something you should ever do. You may be really desperate or may have been looking for an opportunity like this since forever, but just don’t do it. There are far easier ways, so why bother with this. It’s just really perverse, and you just can’t take advantage of a friend who trusts your company.

An opportunity may crop up some other day, but never kiss a friend if you find yourself in such a situation. Respect your friend and yourself, because if you do take advantage of a drunk friend, that makes you no different than a rapist.

#4 When your friend is grieving

Now it’s natural to feel physically and emotionally connected when you’re hugging a grieving friend, but don’t use the closure and take advantage of the situation. If your friend makes the first move, then go right ahead. But if your friend just wants a shoulder to lean on at a difficult time, be there for your friend as a friend, not a lusty buddy. [Read: How to date a friend]

So the next time you’re wondering how to kiss a friend, look no further. This is as foolproof as it can get, especially when you’re trying to get away with kissing a friend!

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48 thoughts on “How to Kiss a Friend Accidentally and Get Away with It”

  1. michael says:

    Or just man up, tell them you like them as more than a friend and you’d like to do indecent things to them and suggest they take their clothes off.

  2. Anonymous says:

    Okay, I have just got to share this. I’ve read this before and I thought it was interesting, but I really didn’t think more about it.

    Just last evening, I broke up with my girlfriend after a fight. We’ve been having fights so often I forget why we’re even going out. But after she stormed out, got back home and decided to test this. I called a friend up and told her that my girlfriend broke up with me. I pretended to be sad and asked her if she could come over. She came by my place soon, and I just pretended like I was all sad and upset.

    She sat next to me and was patting me on my shoulder and back, while reassuring me at the same time. I snuggled up closer and pretended like my eyes were tearing up. About half an hour of cozying up, we both got closer and closer until I had a huge erection. Of course, she didn’t notice it. I wrapped her in my arms and kissed her neck. When she didn’t do anything, I took a chance and kissed her. She started kissing me back, and woo hoo, we ended up making out!

    Thanks to you guys, I’ve changed a break up into a make out, and you know what, I love it!!

  3. Wow! says:

    Really, wow!

    Lol, I just can’t say anything else. This is just so good and yet so innocent too. Who wrote this, it’s so blooming clever and so simple. WOW!

  4. Horny says:

    You dirty little scheming devil! Can’t even leave friends alone, can you? Perv.

  5. Lucky Bastard says:

    Thank you so much, Lovepanky! You guys rock. I just can’t believe my luck. And I can’t stop thanking you enough. Thank you, thank you and thank you for these devious and yet such cool ways to kiss a friend. You made my day.

    I worked my courage up to kiss my friend while hugging her goodbye and it worked. It happened yesterday. And then she called me late at night last night and asked me if I realized we kissed by accident. I told her I had no idea, but also mentioned that it was so unfortunate I didn’t realize it because kissing her would have been the most awesome thing to do.

    We met up again, and this time too, I kissed her right on her lips. She looked surprised and I told her I wanted to know how it felt. And then, just like that, we started kissing deeply. We’re not dating yet, and I don’t know if we will, but you guys seriously helped me work my courage up with your awesome tips.

    If anyone were to ask me if I would ever have the courage to make out with my sexy friend a week ago, I would have laughed on their face. But thanks to you, I just did that!

  6. the pedo says:

    Or you can “acccidentally” bump into them while walking some where. But you have to make sure you’re both walking towards each other, and that she is occupied while walking, like texting or reading, or something!

  7. I have a question … Does this work when I am a guy and my friends is the guy ??

    I really dont know ??

  8. John says:

    Does this still work when I am a guy and my friends is the guy

  9. anon says:

    This is brilliant!!! Im gonna try it this weekend but on a stranger though. Wish me luck guys!!

  10. Jeremy says:

    This is brilliant, you guys are geniuses. Ogh damn, I used the #4 step while clubbing and it’s always worked for me. I’ve actually kissed several girls this way. The first time I tried it, I was so scared I was actually sweating. But now, it’s a breeze. All you have to do is wait for the crescendo while listening to some trance music on the dancefloor, get really close and just kiss her accidentally, and then smile awkwardly or just stare like you’re confused or smitten all of a sudden. It may be a slight rub of the lips, but once that’s done, the sexual chemistry would be on an all time high, and from there on, it’s only going to get more horny.

  11. Richard says:

    I was thinking about this, I have a good idea to sneak a kiss, imagine you drive them back home & your still in the car but your date didn’t get out of the car yet. You tell them you enjoyed the date etc. & tell them that you notice something on their face & probs they might look at their self in the mirror then you get a wipe or tissue & try to wipe of the (imaginary mess) on their face & you tell them it’s too dark come closer I can’t see & then your face to face & you go in close & kiss them & when you finish kissing say I got it 😉

  12. JJ says:

    I think it’s a bad idea to kiss a friend, and especially try to have sex with a friend. This goes for either sex. The main reason is, if you wish to continue being friends with them after (unless you’re trying to make them your significant other) things can potentially get awkward if you do end up in a relationship with someone else. If the person you get into a relationship finds out that you used to use this friend for casual sex/makeout sessions…they will have trust issues with you and this friend. It’s not their fault either…it’s not like they’re being overly jealous. I mean, you DID do something with this person in the past, and there’s no reason to assume you wouldn’t do it again, especially if you did it while drunk. Your new partner will think that anytime you get drunk with this person, you may lose yourself and end up in bed with the friend…and boom, you’ve now made it where you can’t hang out with your friend alone drinking, without eventually losing your significant other over trust/jealousy issues (that are perfectly healthy).

  13. JJ says:

    Basically what I’m saying is: there’s a reason that friends are friends, and boyfriends/girlfriends are boyfriends/girlfriends, and f–kbuddies are f–kbuddies. F–kbuddies are usually understanding that it’s on hold while you’re in a relationship, and that you won’t be contacting them during that time. If you really want some quick, NSA making out or sex…just get a f–kbuddy who you don’t care about remaining friends with.

  14. Teressa says:

    The past few days my friends and I were chatting in the school yard suddenly my friend and I started to look deeply in each others eyes then on each others lips then I told him that I wanna tell him something so his face nd my face became too close nd he looked again on my lips but he didn’t kiss me … When I got home he texted me saying : u know it sounds awkward but I really wanted to kiss u today . I replied saying : yeah we were too close but unfortunately our friends were there ! . Then we started texting each other like I don’t know !!! And we planned to meet before school to make out ! I don’t know if it’s right to plan for a kiss but seriously I’m dying to kiss him I don’t know why !!! I might use some of ur tips guys but I’m a bit nervous about what if it was not good ! I want it to be memorable moment for both of us … But I already have a boyfriend and it’ll sound like I’m cheating on him but I’m not friends do make out sometimes !!!
    Wish me good luck guys 🙂

  15. Jai says:

    I was friends with someone and she seemed like she was wanting to kiss me but then my friends interuppted and ruined it now i will never know if she wanted to.

  16. John says:

    I’m great friends with this girl, one of probably her 4 closest guy friends. Now two of them are like brothers to her, so dating them would be weird, and the other is already in a relationship. I only met her properly around 2 months ago, so we’ve become very good friends very fast. I don’t know whether I’m into that stage where it would be weird to date me, but I’ve liked her since we first met, and like her more every time I see her. She doesn’t think I like her, but she did find out when we first met that I had unreciprocated feelings for her, and to stop things being weird I convinced her I didn’t anymore. She seems to think that relationships with close friends don’t work, although she does seem to agree that they are the longest-lasting and best (so does she think that relationships in general don’t work?). I don’t know whether I should try and kiss her using one of these techniques and gauge her response? I don’t really know if she could picture being in a relationship with me, maybe I’m just not her type of guy at all, but I would quite like to know that so if I’m not, I can focus on getting over her and stopping any more heartache. I’m going to a party on Friday, there may be alcohol, should I try for a kiss? I don’t want to sleep with her by the way, not unless I was in a proper relationship with her. I doubt she would sleep with somebody like that anyway.

  17. Sharon sharma says:

    I think my friend likes me. He always flirts with me whenever we chat on phone. And I think I’m attracted to him too. Should I try to kiss him? Cause he sits really close to me and holds my hand whenever we are together.

  18. Wale says:

    During a phone chat session with my friend, she told me she would like it if we kissed, and she has been behaving funny like flirting, and calling me her boyfriend in public. I think she wants us back together cause she is my ex. What am i meant to do?

  19. Samantha says:

    Wale, I think that she wants you back together. I mean come on! It’s obvious! I have 2 guy friends and i really like both of them. One ofthem knows I like him, and the other keeps flirting with me. It was only yesterday he punched my arm.

  20. Samantha says:

    And I think he liked me first. 2 of my friends like him.

  21. NATASHA says:

    I luv kissing soo much, esp. when my boyfriend holds me by the neck…, i luv all ur tips and it definitely worked for me

  22. MMI says:

    My friend kissed me a few nights ago. She did drink quite a bit and told me she was trying to get me drunk , so she could actually go through it. It’s actually felt good. Now I dunt know if it’s a move or just a one time thing. And i was so sober!!

  23. Miami says:

    I have a friend that i would like to kiss but she is kinda the hard to get type,she says she really likes hanging out with me but we haven’t cross the friend line,i need to know how to kiss her!

  24. Leo says:

    I am really really close with my friend, and I’m pretty sure she likes me… We hold hands and stay really close to each other very often.. But I don’t want our friendship to be ruined. What should I do?

  25. Maddi says:

    this is what happened to me..
    i have this really close friend and my boyfriend and i broke up the night before. so my friend and i were talking and he was trying to cheer me up, i feed him a marshmellow for fun and opened my mouth signalling i wanted it.. he gave me this look and leaned it, with my lips i slowly took the marshmellow out of his, i gave a slight giggle and took the marshmellow out of my mouth. by that time he was looking at me, we both leaned in.. and viola! we made out, he has always had feelings for me and now we are together. (:

  26. Jordan says:

    I have a new question. So there’s this guy I’m kind of into. Weve been friends for like a year now. He’s really great. He’s hilarious. He’s fun to be around. And we’re just in general really food friends. The only down side to him is that he’s not very attractive. And he has fat lips(and that’s just something I do not like). I still kind of want to kiss him. But I feel like it may gross me out and I wouldn’t want to do it again so then things might get awkward. What should I do?

  27. lonely short guy says:

    I have a friend called Amy and we are in high school. I never realised how much I actually like her so I’m planning on “accidentally” kissing her. What is the best way to do that?

  28. jeff says:

    R u gay?

    Just asking

  29. jeff says:

    What if I was a girl and my friend was a girl

  30. Blair says:

    It’s ok to be the same gender gust go with what u fell comfy with ok

  31. Daniel says:

    from where do u get the guts?

  32. Daniel says:

    u lesbian

  33. Theo says:

    So, kiss her and if she will get angry leave and the next day go, hold his hand and say “I’m sorry, at least can we hold our friendship?” I’m sure she will say “yes”…

  34. Jon says:

    Why not just ask…

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