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How to Text Flirt with a Friend

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Do you know how to text flirt with a friend? Do you want to? Text flirting is easy, and can be a great way to turn a clean friendship into something flirty and sexual!

All of us have shared at least one flirty text with a good friend over the years.

How to text flirt

Sometimes, it’s just a joke, and sometimes, we text flirt with a friend in the hope of getting physical with a friend.

So how does text flirting work, and how does it all start?


“Hi wt r u dn?”

“Jst bout 2 slip in2 my bed”

“Really? Wt r u wearin? lol!”

“Umm.. nthin! lol!”

“lol! Wish I was there!”

It’s that simple, really.

Friends flirt texting late at night, the mood set just right, and no inhibitions between friends, can lead to an explicit and flirtilicious conversation.

Well, if you’re surprised, think twice and look around the next time you’re with your bunch of friends.

Almost all the time, there will be at least a few of them who secretly flirt text each other occasionally, if not everyday.

Your friends wouldn’t be surprised if you’re indulging in it either.

Men and women have always been attracted towards each other, and at times, even the best of friends can end up having an emotional affair or may set off the vibes that can arouse sexual interest in each other. [Read: Signs you’re more than friends already]

Text flirting with a friend

When you text flirt with a friend, it can start off as a cute funny thing, something worth a giggle in the start, but as the days go by, the messages can get kinkier and more sexual.

And another thing is that, neither of the involved friends would feel awkward about it, but would look forward to text flirt with the friend the next night. You may be dating someone else, but the urge to flirt text this friend of yours in an intimate flirty manner can be such a turn on that it might be very hard to resist! [Read: What to do when you start liking someone else]

Psychologists say that this feeling is an echo of the feeling you get when you fall in love, or are aroused by someone new in a sexual manner. This person may be a friend, but when you text flirt with a friend intimately, you’re actually looking at the same friend of yours from another point of view, and every new message shows something new about this person.

When you text flirt with a friend, it can affect you in many ways. It may bring both of you closer, but there will always be sexual tension that is created between you and this friend. So before you go ahead and text flirt while messaging each other on the phone, ask yourself if you’re prepared to fall in love  with your friend or whether you’re looking for someone to spend a night with. Quite frankly, both can be achieved through a few rounds of text flirting. [Read: Tips to start dating a friend]

Most of the times, we text flirt only because of an urge to start a taboo relationship with a friend. After all, friends don’t have sex with each other, and it is this very thought that makes a friend hope for something more sexual with a friend.

Text flirting at night – How to text flirt with a friend

Have you ever wanted to know how to text flirt with someone through messages, but didn’t know how to go about it? It’s not hard at all. All you have to do is take your cell phone and text your friend, preferably late at night. In all probability, you would find yourself text flirting outrageously in a matter of days, or in a couple of weeks.

It begins with a message that could be intimate, even something as trivial as “So do you lie on your back or on your tummy when you sleep?”

The text flirting could get steamier soon, and you may just be on your way to a whole night of text flirting with your friend. We always feel more confident and daring when we text flirt over the cell phone, rather than a flirty conversation face to face. And the fact that you can add a little line mentioning you’re kidding, takes away all the pressure while your friend replies to your text flirt.

Your friend, on the other hand, would obviously know what your intentions are, but there’s something in text flirting that makes these flirty conversations all the more fun. It could give you hours of pleasure and a secret sexual relationship may bloom between the both of you, and both of you may end up becoming sex buddies or two people who are extremely aroused by each other, but don’t do anything about it. And that’s not a happy situation either! [Read: How to have sex with a friend]

You would also know a lot about each other through text flirting eventually, physically or otherwise. But surprisingly, when two people start to text flirt each with other, their regular day lives do not change much. It would be more like a secret text flirt relationship the both of you share, late at night with a cell phone in your hands.

You see, it’s not how to text flirt with a friend that you should be thinking about, it’s what you’re going to do once you start text flirting with each other. Stay as friends or become sexually involved? Click here to continue reading about flirty text messages and how to take it to the next level.

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34 thoughts on “How to Text Flirt with a Friend”

  1. Samdup says:

    I want a F buddy.

  2. Zionoi says:

    LOL, Samdup 😀

  3. terry says:

    Samdup i do too…..

  4. alyssa says:

    I want an F buddy, bad. never had one…..:(

  5. Jenn says:

    I just separated from my husband back in Feb. started a friends with benefits with one of my friends about 5 weeks ago and about a week and a half ago I was asked to be a f buddy from another friend since I already had a “f buddy” I said no way. well a week ago guy number one freaks out and gives me the cold shoulder and not very talkative. well Last night I was fn horny and decided to call up friend #2 and finally got what I needed a no strings, no attachment, just hot sex!!! I know I this probably sounds bad but after being with 1 man (but not being with him) for a long time and I just want to be taken and f’ed hard. It happened and i have a feeling we are going to have a great time relieving everyday stress by pounding it out. LOL

  6. tiffany says:

    i like friends with benefits and no strings attached….

  7. Bakura says:

    Tiffany where are you from?

  8. Denis says:

    I want to dispel my loneliness with some fun

  9. Ricardo says:

    I would love to text a nice women for great conversation

  10. Kayla says:

    I really want this one boy that I like to ask me out but i think he likes me back so he might be nervous im thinking of asking him out instead how should I ask him out

  11. peter chrisp says:

    Well what can i say i have just joined a dating site without getting charged & all of a sudden i am speaking with a young 32 year old lady & don’t forget i am 56, received a message suprisingly
    would like to get to know you uh? Jumped online next moment we are talking for about an hour
    and a few suggestions were there what do you want i a relationship etc etc, i found this very hot
    & exciting and she asked a number of personal questions which i thought was great now in regards to the age i am old enough to be her father but to get into someones pocket at that age
    want to get to know you more and to my shock you want a f buddy i can honestly say i didn’t know how to react but with some of your hilarious comments above i may as well try them out

  12. gabriel says:

    well I just need advice on this my course mate like leaning. on me alot love going out with me but I never told her I love her she invite me to her church. I went but last week I saw a girl. and I was just saying. damn but to my surprise she was jealous. and over reacting but I never told her I love but to me I wanna. marry she is so caring

  13. Start Flirt says:

    hahaha, you covered some good points. thanks!

  14. Tired says:

    Just not that easy

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