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How to Prove That You Love Someone The Right Way

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Is your lover asking for proof of your love? Or are you trying hard to do just that? Find out how to prove that you love someone the right way.

Young lovers have a fascination for love and the way it works.

And more than anything else, the impatient young want proof for everything.

[Read: Interesting ways to tell someone you love them]

If a meaningful proclamation of love isn’t enough for you, here’s something that can help you understand the proof of love better.

Firstly, there is no quick way to prove that you love someone.

Love needs time to reveal itself, just like a flower needs time to bloom and a sapling needs time to grow into a tree.

[Read: 9 tips for a perfect new relationship]

6 ways to prove that you love someone

If you want to prove that you love someone, here are a few things you can keep in mind to do just that.

#1 Be truthful. Be truthful about your feelings and voice your thoughts.

The easiest way to prove that you love someone is by expressing your opinions about this special person.

#2 A shoulder to learn on. Stand by your lover,  in the good times, and more so in the bad times.

All of us have our ups and downs in life. Be the shoulder to lean on and give your partner the courage and strength to take the next step by letting them know that you’re right by their side.

#3 Sex and lust. While infatuation revolves around sex and lust, love doesn’t. Love is a deeper emotion that transcends physical appearances. If you truly believe that you like your partner for who they are as a person, and not because of how much they arouse you, that’s true love. [Read: Understanding how love at first sight works]

#4 Don’t be materialistic. Money is fickle. It’s true that money can give you a lot of happiness, but your love should not flicker with the winds of wealth. [Read: Money can buy you happiness]

#5 Romantic gestures. Indulging in happy romantic gestures is one of the sweetest ways to let someone know that you truly love them. It’ll make your partner feel loved and you’ll feel warm and happy on the inside. [Read: 25 sweet romantic gestures for everyday life]

#6 Unconditional love. Love your partner unconditionally and selflessly. Put their needs before yours, and focus on their happiness more than your own. Unconditional love is tricky though and these expressions of selfless love should never be one sided in the relationship, or it would eventually lead to a painful breakup. [Read: A cute true story of unconditional love]

The proof of love

Young lovers constantly want their partners to prove their love by indulging in cinematized gestures like undergoing pain or risking something they love dearly just to prove their love for someone. It’s cute and very romantic, when both lovers go to great lengths to sacrifice pleasures and moments of happiness so they can let someone know just how much they mean to them.

Go on and indulge in it, after all, love does drive you crazy. It may have worked in the days of the knights and damsels, and it still does work to this day. But don’t try to prove your love for someone by doing something you don’t want to, or something you know you’ll end up regretting.

The truth about proving your love for someone

Anyone who asks you to prove your love doesn’t love you yet. They’re toying with you or just having fun with you to see how much you can pursue them. While a romantic chase is good during the wooing period, stay away from partners who ask for proof of your love all the time, even though both of you have been seeing each other for a while. [Read: The 10 types of love you’ll experience in your life]

Guys ask a girl to prove her love only to get a sexual favor in return.

Girls ask a guy to prove his love only to make him play to her tunes and show off to her friends that she controls him.

Love is not a test. It’s an emotion, just like pain or happiness. You can only express it, you can’t prove it. It’s something that has to be felt and experienced.

Love is not something that can be proved, unless you use scientific brain scans and test chemical levels in your body. And to be quite frank, they’re not very accurate either.

Things you should never do to prove your love

As much as you may want to prove how much you love someone, avoid doing any of these things.

# Have sex or get physical with your partner when you’re uncomfortable with that thought.

# Break the law just to appear cooler or get something for your partner.

# Do something you don’t want to or feel comfortable with.

# Go against your moral principles that you’ll regret later.

But if you can’t stop looking for ways to prove your love, indulge in a romantic gesture that can bring a smile on your partner’s face. That’s all the proof your partner should need. [Read: How to write a romantic love letter]

How far should you go to prove your love for someone?

If your lover constantly wants proof of your love all the time, end the relationship. You’ll always feel like you need to do more to prove your love and your partner will never be happy. Love is mutual and effortless. Both of you have to prove your love in little ways every day and build the trust around the relationship. [Read: How to build trust in a relationship]

Romantic gestures, gifts and poems don’t prove your love, it’s just a way to express the overwhelming rush of happy emotions you feel for someone.

If that’s what your lover wants, indulge in it. But don’t do anything more. It’s not necessary to prove anything when your lover behaves like an immature child who wants proof for everything you do. And you should be wary though, a partner who asks for proof of your love may just want to exploit you the easy way.

[Read: 25 relationship rules for successful love]

Understanding how to prove that you love someone is easy if you understand how love works. It’s something that has to be felt inside, and not something that can ever be proved by any other means.

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Elizabeth Arthur
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10 thoughts on “How to Prove That You Love Someone The Right Way”

  1. anastasia says:

    i think this was amazing i found out i was happy with my boyfriend thaanks

  2. Phillip says:

    I have cheated and hurt my girlfriend on countless occasions, I want her to trust me again. I real love her but I realise that the relationship has become toxic because I have become possesive and very munch a dictator. I always provoke her, she deletes hear Facebook chats with .Sometimes she bullies me and we fight. She usually bites and breaks my fingers. I used to hit her but now she does it to me. I have stopped cheating but she doesn’t believe me. I don’t know what more to do. She really knws how to love me but sometimes I have beg her. I really enjoy being with her, she is a good lover but friend as well. How do I bring back the fire and the trust in the relationship?

  3. Danielle says:

    My husband wants me to prove I love him, but I am not sure how he wants me to prove it, and even then where does the effort end when it is acheived and he still can’t accept that I love him and only him?

  4. Alicia says:

    I did wrong by my fiance I cheated on him and its killing me. I can’t figure out y I cheated. I know I was hurt cause him and me were living apart and he was playing games with me saying there was nothing between us that we weren’t together and we weren’t in a relationship. But y did I go with another when i love him more than anything in the world. How can I win him back before he moved farther from me he said he loves me and always will. We talk off and on. But he dont trust me cause Ive done wrong in the past too. I miss him so much I cry all the time not having him. I need help please hes my heart and it hurts knowing ive hurt him again. I don’t know what is wrong with me. I know alot of my problem is not having love as a kid from my parents but I dont want to be my parents. I want to learn to love. Ive been honest with him since but hes not sure he can believe it. I tell him everything im doing. I tell him im sorry and its my fault. But he believes I just am lieing to him. I understand hes having problems trusting me since what ive dont. He says he wants to believe me and loves me but hes scared to be hurt again. Hes a very sweet guy and hes my love.

  5. Monique says:

    I never cheated I cheated myself from my true love.. I think lust hurts more.. I just wanted his attention but he never had time.. I only wanted 2 be noticed to feel like I did in the begining.. now he’s preoccupied with work and tired which I understand I just want to be acknowledged sometimes…

  6. ezekiel okyere says:

    my girlf friend wants to breakup with me because i did not accept the fact that we should not have sex till we marry..please tell me what to do because i dont want to loose her..i love her so much

  7. newguy12345 says:

    I just ended a relationship with someone who can be considered “emotionally unavailable” and in her own words “cold.” I disagree with the writer about how little gestures I.e. notes, poems, letters, etc don’t matter. Sometimes, the simple EFFORT of doing those things (especially when your significant other is not verbal) is important to hear. Sometimes it DOES matter for those things to be simply said and done instead of reading between the lines and always grasping at straws (I.e well she LIVES with me, of coursd she must love me right?)

    I did all of those those things and more such as exhibiting patience, kjndess, compassion, trustworthiness, and a sense of unity by standing by my partner to express my love and I never received one sweet text good morning, a response to an expressive letter, or even an “I love you” verbally expressed that wasn’t a response to me saying it first.

    I did ask for more of those things because she was becomming complacent. Did that mean I was trying to simply use her or force her to love me? No. Everyone needs validation though and sometimes asking for those things to be expressed IS important. Simply having a person live with you, have sex with you, watch movies with you, eat with you, etc, is not enough to say they LOVE you. Expressing that love verbally or written does help you ascertain their emotions for you which is the basis of trust and commitment needed for a successful relationship and a desire to properly communicate with you.

    So, unfortunately, because I did not receive this things, these little deposits, and because I asked her, after a year and half together if she loved me with the response “Well, there are things I love about you.” I ended it.

  8. Ifrat says:

    I love my GF very much.Maybe she loves me too.But she wants me to proof that I really love her.I don’t know what to do.I can’t stay without her for a second.I need to proof that I Love her.Please help me how to proof ?

  9. jeannie says:

    Please tell me what to do I have been on the same boat as you but we both have did it to each other but I love him more then words can say

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