Ever tried a double date? Sometimes, it takes a good double date to bring the excitement back into love. Read these double dating ideas and its benefits.
Double dating isn’t really the rage, or even something that’s given its due.
Many couples hang out with other couples all the time, without really giving it a name.
Have you ever been on a double date?
There’s a good chance that you’ve been on a double date, at least in your teen years.
But as a matter of fact, double dates can do more good for your relationship, even when you’re past your teens.
Before we go into double dating ideas and the best things you can do with another couple, here are a few things you should know about double dates.
Double date requirements
As fun as double dates can be, there’s a good chance that both of you are going to come back home and bitch about how you guys ending up spending more or how the other couple got to go where they wanted to and had more fun than both of you.
If you want to go on a double date, you need another couple that you respect and know you can have fun with.
There’s no point in going out with another couple when all either of you want to do is show off your romance or money. If you can be good friends with the other couple, there’s a great chance that you’ll have a lot of fun too.
Why do couples double date?
There are a lot of benefits of double dating and we’ll get to it in a bit. But one of the best reasons to double date with another couple is to bring the romance and your social life together, and have more fun.
For many couples, the conversations start to dry out as the weeks turn to months and years. They may just not have anything interesting or exciting to discuss about when they go out on a romantic date, especially when they spend a lot of time together. And it isn’t just restricted to conversations. The eagerness to dress up for a date too can start declining because these dates can start to feel like routine after a while.
By double dating, you can bring the excitement back into a date, dressing up, conversations et al.
The best double date ideas
Double dates can be fun all the time, but there are a few double date ideas that can prove to be a lot more fun than just indulging in it as a couple. Looking for a good double date tip?
You may want to have a fascinating conversation with your partner and have a great time when you’re out fine dining. But if you’ve been together for a while, the only conversations that may trail for a while are ones that involve work, laundry, fancy china and lamp shades for the home that you see at the restaurant or bitching about other clumsy people eating in the restaurant. It’s normal and we’ve all been there. You don’t have to shuffle your toes about it.
When you involve another couple, the conversations can be refreshing and may even start to feel like a new date. When you’re with another couple, you get to repeat happy stories about each other and have a laugh even if you’ve said the same joke a million times. You get to spend time with two good friends and feel like a date at the same time. Can it get any better?
A vacation for four
Regular romantic vacations are every loving couple’s dream and something to look forward to. But every time you’re travelling with your partner, it’s just the both of you. You can’t really explore the wilderness or the winding streets without the fear of losing your way or getting into trouble somewhere along the way.
A twosome vacation can be private and fun. But by double dating on a vacation with another couple, you’d feel a lot more confident and safer lurking after dark or staying back at a party after dinner. And as a side note, snapping couple pictures can be so easy when you have company. [Read: Road trip tips for couples]
Clubbing and parties
When you’re an attractive couple, it’s easy to get the wrong kind of attention, especially when you’re far from home and you’ve got no one around. Ever had to deal with a drunken partner who’s almost knocked out with booze? It can be frightening, especially if you’re the woman.
When you double date your clubbing and partying nights, it can be more fun having company around. You’d have company to cheer you on as you down a shooter, another couple to wink at while dancing, and safe company to look after you when you’re too drunk to drive back home. [Read: How to network at a party]
Little day trips
Whether you’re trekking or camping, even luxuriating at a faraway resort spa or lazing at a fishing pond, there’s nothing better than going out with another couple.
Camping with your partner can seem cozy and romantic, but it doesn’t really feel safe. And little day trips can be more fun when you have company to share the moments. If you want to take a swim or snooze for a while, your partner still has two other people to talk to and have fun. Double dating on day trips can be more fun, and give you the peace and quiet of a romantic trip too.
The good side of double dating
Firstly, there isn’t much of a bad side to double dating at all, as long as your double dating lovers are friends and both of you like spending time with them, without worrying about egos.
Double dating can bring a fresh perspective to dating and dating conversations. You feel like a couple and yet you have four different points of view and four different people’s stories to share. Conversations on a double date can be a lot more fun for you and your partner, especially when you’re in a long relationship.
[Read: What to talk about on a date]
Friends and lovers
When you spend time with friends, you’d never really feel like you’re getting to spend some romantic moments with your own lover. But when you’re on a double date, you get to socialize and spend time with a couple of friends and yet, feel like you’re on a real date at the same time.
Learning from each other
When you’re in a relationship, both of you are a perfect picture in a photo frame. You look may lovely together, but you can’t really step out of the frame and see your own life. Double dating gives you the chance to spend time with another couple and learn from their behavior with each other, be it good or bad. In the long term, it can help you understand more about your own love life and how you can become better lovers.
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Keep your own love life exciting
Spending time with another couple on a date can actually bring the excitement back into your own relationship. The best part of double dating is that you can actually get romantic with your own lover without worrying about excessive PDA in front of friends. After all, you are with another romantic couple, and not with a group of friends. And as awkward as a little public affection may seem, it’s always a turn on even when you think about it in bed with your partner after the date.
[Read: Is kissing in public a turn on?]
The excitement isn’t just restricted to your bed life, watching your partner having a good conversation or a laugh on a double date gives you the chance to just sit back and admire your lover without worrying about answering back. It’ll make you realize how special and wonderful your lover truly is.
[Read: Interesting dating facts]
With so much to gain through double dates, it would be ridiculous to skip that idea, wouldn’t it? Use these double dating ideas and have a romantic and exciting time with another couple. It’ll definitely be worth it!
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