A writer isn’t born, but created out of experiences. No lack of subject matter, my life reads more like fiction than anything that could have been imagined in the head of a storyteller. While being in the throes of caregiving for my husband, who subsequently died at the age of 35 from pancreatic cancer, I found my voice telling the world of his challenges and documenting the fallout of those he left here after he was gone. Relationships are very complex things and don’t come with instruction manuals.
All we can do is to try to find consensus, ask for opinions and help from those around us, and always listen to what our inner voice tells us is right. We are all in it together for a reason, drawing strength from others is sometimes the only way to survive. I hope I help someone out there to not only survive but to thrive the way countless of strangers and loved ones have helped me. Relationships can be hard, heart breaking and desperate, but they are also the things that make our hearts soar, give our lives meaning and pull us through unimaginable circumstances as we make our way through this journey. As the love of my life has told me many times, peaks and valleys Jules, peaks and valleys.
Feminism freed women and gave them options they never had before. A feminazi seeks to take away women’s freedom to be women.
Is there anything more hurtful then learning how to get over a heartbreak? Your instinct is to get through it quickly, but you must give it time to heal.
Social cues are universal cues in many forms, learning to read them, while listening to a person’s words, will give you a better social perspective.
Deciding to separate is a hard enough decision for people in a relationship. Dating while separated depends on what your head and heart tells you.
We all need to connect with others. It is human nature. But, not everyone knows how to attach securely and suffer fearful avoidant attachment.
Emotional detachment isn’t a healthy way to live life, but neither is putting too much emotion into everything. Sometimes emotions don’t help.
If you aren’t sure the object of your desire returns the feelings, try these flirty things to say to a girl and see what her reply is to stop or keep going.
Society seeks to emasculate men. If you want to know how to be more masculine, stop listening to what people tell you and listen to your instincts.
A shy extrovert is someone who is engaging—but only in the right situations. Meeting people is not your thing, but enjoying time with friends is!
I am just going to say it—women are not easy creatures to make amends with. And learning how to make up with your girlfriend means stepping lightly.