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    If you ejaculate too soon after entering the vagina, simply do not penetrate, keep caressing her, do not shy away from usinga dildo if necessary, until she has got the orgasm. After her orgasm, yours will not be premature. How to make her orgasm? You can read about that in very many places. This advice works better if you made love to her before. If this is your new date, you can use the “Pre-emptive Stike” trick described several entries below.


    Two sensitive first world “problems” for guys in bed. Circumcision and premature ejaculation. Many articles describe pm as a ‘disease’, and that he who ejaculates fast is considered ‘sick’. Same with uncircumcised dicks in north America (beside the point in this forum). Two word answer for these two touchy subjects; take a moment and really think about this. Pharmaceutical industry (includes doctors). The pharmaceutical industry plays a HUGE role in today’s society. There is a pill and cream for everything possibly imaginable. Beauty, weight loss, erectile dysfunction, the list goes on. Where there is money to be made, they will rake it in, even if it means to brainwash society through media, advertisements. They play on our emotions (the ability to feel emotions is one of the major things that differs us from other mammals). They induce shame and embarrassment to get our money. I got news for you gentlemen. In nature, there is no such thing as premature ejaculation. Quite the contrary…the faster a mammal can reproduce, the better chance of survival that species has by passing along changed (adapted) DNA to the next generation. This falls under Darwin’s theory: Survival of the fittest. He who can adapt to changes in the environment the fastest and the best, survives the longest. We are no more than creatures of nature, and therefore ‘performance’ needs to be interpreted as how fast and how often a species can reproduce within a given time. Through media we as humans have been changed to developed ‘emotional sex’. Foreplay (making love) and specifically: outlasting and pleasing your woman in bed. This all goes against nature. Guys who last for hours have the real “problem” because their reproductive organs don’t function properly anymore. What we need to really change, is our society’s way of thinking.


    82 years old and lost my mate of 63 years last year. I still can masturbate but t it takes watching pornography to trigger the little bugger. It is easy to get my dick a little thick but never rigidly full, If I begin to jerk-off, I can feel the thing get stiffer, but I have to place the fingers on my free hand on each side of my dick and press so that the erection is full. If I take the pressure away, the dick begins to go limp. The rest of the process is the same as it was when I was younger, but alas, when the big moment arrives, I feel the good feeling of cuming, but there is no load or even a dribble.indication of any. Age????????


    Thankyou for this. I have come here to help my husband. We have been together for 10 years and mostly things are exciting and fresh. Lately this has been happening to my husband and I really feel for him. He gets so excited by me and is always touching me and being flirtatious. I think for us it is because I am a morning person and he is a night person, her have always got away with morning sex, however our daughter is growing up and he is scared she will walk in and catch us… or hear us. So this being an issue in his head makes sense. Time to turn to night time sex and to talk to him about this page. Thankyou x


    Hey guys, great tips. It’s so true what you guys say about masturbation before having sex. With me however, I find it only works after like three times or so, meaning I have to basically have three private sessions before I get the effect of lasting longer. But when I do, I can last for like 40 minutes, even with continuous non-stop thrusting. It’s like it takes all the sensitivity away. Only thing is, it actually then feels quite boring for me, I can’t even feel anything during sex. That is why I always do foreplay and I don’t start anything for myself until the girl has come at least once. And also, I find when you try and prop yourself up by straightening your arms in missionary with you on top, that makes you come quicker too. Actually doggy is the most controllable position for me.


    I need to know more about satisfying my woman


    One more remark about tactical masturbation some time before sex, as a tool for avoiding a premature ejaculation. Since great ideas need names, I am proposing calling it a “Pre-emptive Strike”.


    This is really a very good article, i love it


    There is a simple trick about premature ejaculation, that you do mention, but it is buried in the text, while it should have priority: You know yourself how soon (or how much later) you can get the second erection after an ejaculation. Plan ahead, and long enough before getting physical with the girl, go to the bathroom and do yourself that small favor. Never allow yourself to panic that the new erection will not happen, relax, take it easy, talk with her, joke, tease her with some friendly wrestling, start the foreplay which you can continue until you are really ready. You can do it !


    I am 45years old ,I cant believe I found a how to manual on how to make my life more simple,I am glad I found you ,but if I could’ve had your insights 20 years ago ,I could’ve avoided a lot of unnecessary mistakes,but I am truly grateful for your help,I look forward to reading this life manual.


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